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“Parents are much more likely to be attuned to what they don't like than they are to the expectations that the kid is having difficulty meeting.” quote by Ross W. Greene
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“Parents are much more likely to be attuned to what they don't like than they are to the expectations that the kid is having difficulty meeting.”

Ross W. Greene

About This Quote

Source Book: The Explosive Child, Ross W. Greene, 1998

Parents often focus on their own dislikes rather than the child's unmet expectations, hindering understanding.

In simple terms: Parents notice what they dislike more than child's needs.

Key Takeaway

Listen to child's expectations.

Themes

parenting communication expectations

Mood

concerned thoughtful

Type

advisory educational

When to use this quote

  • parent‑child conflict
  • school challenges
  • behavioral issues

Key Concepts

empathetic listening child development

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can parents shift focus to child's expectations?
  • What strategies improve mutual understanding?
A Different Perspective

Parents may misinterpret child's behavior.

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