Child Quote by Ross W. Greene
“Parents are much more likely to be attuned to what they don't like than they are to the expectations that the kid is having difficulty meeting.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Explosive Child, Ross W. Greene, 1998
Parents often focus on their own dislikes rather than the child's unmet expectations, hindering understanding.
In simple terms: Parents notice what they dislike more than child's needs.
Listen to child's expectations.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- parent‑child conflict
- school challenges
- behavioral issues
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can parents shift focus to child's expectations?
- What strategies improve mutual understanding?
Parents may misinterpret child's behavior.