Abusive relationship Quote by Robin Parry
““What is hard for outsiders to understand is that it is much easier to leave a good enough relationship that is non-abusive than to leave an abusive or violent relationship.””
About This Quote
Leaving a non‑abusive but merely “good enough” relationship is often easier than escaping an abusive one because the latter involves fear, control, and danger.
In simple terms: Leaving a decent relationship can be easier than leaving an abusive one.
Recognize that leaving abuse is uniquely hard.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- personal safety planning
- seeking support
- legal advice
- therapy
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What supports are needed to help someone leave an abusive relationship?
- How can we change the perception that “good enough” is sufficient?
Abusive relationships may involve complex trauma that makes decisions harder.