Communication Quote by Robert B. Parker
““ Conversation between Susan's therapist and Spenser - "And when you find her? Then what?" "Then she will be free again to come here and work with you until she can make the choices she wishes to make." "And what if you are not that choice?" "I think I will be. But I can't control that. What I can do is see that she's free to choose.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Godfather’s Daughter, Robert B. Parker, 1995
The dialogue explores the tension between agency and external influence, suggesting true freedom lies in allowing others to make their own choices despite uncertainty.
In simple terms: Freedom comes from letting others choose, even if you can't control outcomes.
Key Takeaway
Respect others' autonomy.
Themes
choice
freedom
responsibility
Mood
reflective
thoughtful
Type
philosophical
conversational
When to use this quote
- therapy sessions
- relationship counseling
- personal decision making
Key Concepts
agency
existentialism
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you balance guidance with respect for autonomy?
- When is it okay to intervene?
A Different Perspective
Limits of control can cause anxiety and conflict.
