Also Quote by Richard Ford
“I don't hate children. My wife and I just didn't think we would be good parents, and also by the time we got married in 1968, we were pretty nose-down toward what we wanted to do, and having a child was going to be an excuse to fail.”
About This Quote
The speaker expresses uncertainty about parenthood, viewing a child as a potential source of failure rather than a desire for family.
In simple terms: They doubt their ability to be good parents.
Key Takeaway
Self-doubt can shape life choices.
Themes
family
self-perception
responsibility
Mood
reflective
hesitant
Type
personal reflection
When to use this quote
- deciding on adoption
- career vs. family planning
- evaluating personal readiness for commitment
Key Concepts
identity
fear of failure
Practical Applications
- Reflect on personal values before major life decisions.
Questions to Reflect On
- What factors influence your confidence in a role?
- Can uncertainty be a catalyst for growth?
A Different Perspective
The view may overlook the growth and joy that parenthood can bring despite initial doubts.
