Capacity to love Quote by Rebecca Solnit
““One of the reasons people lock onto motherhood as a key to feminine identity is the belief that children are the way to fulfill your capacity to love. But there are so many things to love besides one’s own offspring, so many things that need love, so much other work love has to do in the world.””
About This Quote
Source Book: The Motherhood Manifesto, Rebecca Solnit, 2015
Motherhood is often seen as the sole source of love, but love and care extend far beyond one's children.
In simple terms: Love isn’t limited to motherhood.
Cultivate love in many ways.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- volunteering
- friendship
- community activism
- self‑care routines
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you honor love beyond parenthood?
- What other relationships need your care?
Societal pressure may still value motherhood over other roles.