Adore Quote by Pierre-Augustin Caron de Beaumarchais
““It's your world, but I make my way in it. At fifteen, no, I couldn't stand up to you. The age of illusions, when we know nothing, we hope for everything; we're wandering in a mist ... And the half of the world that's never had any use for us, suddenly is besieging us. You need us, you adore us, you're suffering for us. You want everything--except to know what we think. You look deep in our eyes--and put your hand up our dress. You call us, "Pretty thing." That confuses us. The most beautiful woman, the highest ranked, lives half dazzled by constant attention, half stifled by obvious contempt. We think all we're good for is pleasing you--till one day, long acquaintance with you dispels the last mist. In a clear light, we suddenly see you as you are--and generally we start preferring ourselves. At thirty, I could finally say no--or really say yes. That's when you begin backing away from us. Now I'm full-grown. I pursue my happiness the same as any man.””
About This Quote
Source Play: The Marriage of Figaro (Le Mariage de Figaro) by Pierre Beaumarchais, 1778
The speaker describes growing from youthful submission to adult self‑assertion, recognizing how societal expectations and objectification shape identity, and ultimately choosing personal happiness over external approval.
In simple terms: From being controlled to choosing one's own path.
Key Takeaway
Assert boundaries and pursue personal joy.
Themes
identity
gender
power
self‑realization
societal expectations
Mood
defiant
reflective
Type
personal
philosophical
When to use this quote
- adolescence
- career
- relationships
- personal growth
- assertiveness
Key Concepts
objectification
agency
self‑esteem
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you recognize when you are being objectified?
- What steps help you assert your own desires?
A Different Perspective
The transition may be idealized; real‑world pressures can persist despite personal growth.
