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Bad news Quote by Pema Chodron

“…feelings like disappointment, embarrassment, irritation, resentment, anger, jealousy, and fear, instead of being bad news, are actually very clear moments that teach us where it is that we’re holding back. They teach us to perk up and lean in when we feel we’d rather collapse and back away…” quote by Pema Chodron
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“…feelings like disappointment, embarrassment, irritation, resentment, anger, jealousy, and fear, instead of being bad news, are actually very clear moments that teach us where it is that we’re holding back. They teach us to perk up and lean in when we feel we’d rather collapse and back away. They’re like messengers that show us, with terrifying clarity, exactly where we’re stuck. This very moment is the perfect teacher, and, lucky for us, it’s with us wherever we are.”

Pema Chodron

About This Quote

Source Book: When Things Fall Apart, Pema Chodron, 1996

Emotions such as disappointment and fear act as clear signals pointing to areas where we are holding back, urging us to confront and grow.

In simple terms: Strong feelings show where we’re stuck.

Key Takeaway

Notice and act on uncomfortable emotions.

Themes

self-awareness growth emotional intelligence

Mood

reflective motivational

Type

advice inspirational

When to use this quote

  • personal crisis
  • relationship conflict
  • career stagnation
  • creative block

Key Concepts

mindfulness psychology self-compassion

Questions to Reflect On

  • What recurring feeling signals a hidden barrier?
  • How can you turn discomfort into action?
A Different Perspective

Emotions can be overwhelming and may lead to avoidance if not managed.

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