Oxytocin Quote by Peggy O'Mara
““I was in the ecstasy of babies then. I was on a long, oxytocin high. Noone told me about this. Noone told me I would feel like a wild animal ready to kill or be killed at a moment’s notice with no hesitation at all right now for my baby. I would sit on the bed at night nursing Lally and I would imagine a lion jumping through the window. I would plan how to kill him. I knew the lion would be immediately dead. I knew that no matter what, my baby would survive.””
About This Quote
Source Interview: Personal memoir, 2023
The speaker describes the intense, protective instinct and primal aggression that can accompany early motherhood, likening it to a high‑oxytocin state and a fierce desire to defend the child at any cost.
In simple terms: Motherhood can trigger fierce, animal‑like protectiveness.
Recognize and channel protective instincts healthily.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- new mother
- night nursing
- stress management
- parental counseling
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you balance fierce protectiveness with calm caregiving?
- What strategies help manage sudden aggression?
Such intense feelings may be overwhelming and need support.