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Marriage Quote by Oscar Wilde

“The real drawback to marriage is that it makes one unselfish. And unselfish people are colourless. They lack individuality.” quote by Oscar Wilde
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““The real drawback to marriage is that it makes one unselfish. And unselfish people are colourless. They lack individuality.””

Oscar Wilde

About This Quote

Source Play: The Importance of Being Earnest, 1895

Marriage can suppress individuality, making people appear dull and lacking personal color.

In simple terms: Marriage may dull personal uniqueness.

Key Takeaway

Balance selflessness with personal expression.

Themes

relationships individuality conformity

Mood

thoughtful critical

Type

literary philosophical

When to use this quote

  • marriage counseling
  • personal development
  • creative expression
  • social dynamics

Key Concepts

marriage selflessness identity

Questions to Reflect On

  • Can selflessness coexist with individuality?
  • How do you maintain personal color in partnership?
A Different Perspective

May generalize marriage negatively.

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