Divorce Quote by Oscar Wilde
““I really don't see anything romantic in proposing. It is very romantic to be in love. But there is nothing romantic about a definite proposal. Why, one may be accepted. One usually is, I believe. Then the excitement is all over. The very essence of romance is uncertainty. If ever I get married, I'll certainly try to forget the fact. JACK. I have no doubt about that, dear Algy. The Divorce Court was specially invented for people whose memories are so curiously constituted. ALGERNON. Oh! there is no use speculating on that subject. Divorces are made in Heaven-...””
About This Quote
Source Play: The Importance of Being Earnest, 1895
Wilde argues that romance thrives on uncertainty, and a definite proposal ends excitement.
In simple terms: Romance needs mystery; certainty kills excitement.
Key Takeaway
Embrace uncertainty in love.
Themes
romance
uncertainty
commitment
marriage
Mood
witty
philosophical
Type
dramatic
conversational
When to use this quote
- courtship
- engagement
- marital discussions
Key Concepts
expectations
illusion
social norms
Questions to Reflect On
- Do you prefer certainty or mystery in love?
- Can commitment coexist with excitement?
A Different Perspective
Some may value security over mystery; not all share this view.
