Communication Quote by Orson Scott Card
““Will the kind of love I have for you be enough, Wang-mu? To reach out to you when I’m in need, and to try to be here for you when you need me back. And to feel such tenderness when I look at you that I want to stand between you and all the world: and yet also to lift you up and carry you above the strong currents of life; and at the same time, I would be glad to stand always like this, at a distance, watching you, the beauty of you, your energy as you look up at these towering mound-people, speaking to them as an equal even though every movement of your hands, every fluting syllable of your speech cries out that you’re a child—is it enough for you that I feel these loves for you? Because it’s enough for me. And enough for me that when my hand touched your shoulder, you leaned on me; and when you felt me slip away, you called my name.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: Ender’s Game, 1985
A lover wonders if their deep, protective affection is sufficient, balancing closeness with respectful distance.
In simple terms: Questioning if deep love is enough despite distance.
Key Takeaway
Cherish and respect love’s boundaries.
Themes
love
protectiveness
distance
dependence
Mood
melancholic
hopeful
Type
romantic
philosophical
When to use this quote
- relationship counseling
- caregiver support
- personal reflection
Key Concepts
empathy
attachment
boundaries
Questions to Reflect On
- Do you feel loved when loved is expressed from afar?
- How do you balance closeness with independence?
A Different Perspective
Love may not replace practical support when needed.
