Cheating-in-relationships Quote by Oliver Markus Malloy
““We men really, really, really like sex. We like sex so much, many of us are willing to risk getting in serious trouble to get it. That's why laws against rape haven't stopped rape, and why laws against prostitution haven't stopped prostitution, and why men who cheat on their wives would continue to cheat even if it was illegal, and why gay men continue to be gay even in fundamentalist religious countries like Saudi Arabia, where homosexuality is punishable by death.””
About This Quote
Source Essay: “Sex, Law, and Desire” published in The Atlantic, 2020
He argues that sexual desire is powerful and often leads men to break laws, showing that legal bans rarely stop sexual behavior.
In simple terms: Sexual desire drives risky behavior despite laws.
Address underlying desires, not just punishments.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- prostitution enforcement
- rape prevention
- marital infidelity
- LGBTQ rights
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- Can education reduce harmful sexual behavior?
- What alternatives to criminalization exist?
Legal deterrents alone may not change deep-seated drives.