Beautifully-absurd Quote by Nathaniel Hawthorne
““Ought a woman to disclose her frailties earlier than the wedding day? Few husbands, I assure you, make the discovery in such good season, and still fewer complain that these trifles are concealed too long. Well, what a strange man you are! Poh! you are joking.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The House of the Seven Gables, 1851
A woman wonders if she should reveal her weaknesses before marriage, noting that few husbands discover them early and even fewer complain, implying social expectations about honesty and vulnerability.
In simple terms: Should a woman hide flaws until after marriage?
Key Takeaway
Consider openness in relationships.
Themes
honesty
marriage
gender expectations
Mood
reflective
critical
Type
philosophical
social commentary
When to use this quote
- dating
- marriage counseling
- family discussions
Key Concepts
social norms
vulnerability
Questions to Reflect On
- How does timing of disclosure affect trust?
- Are expectations about gender honesty fair?
A Different Perspective
Cultural norms may pressure concealment, limiting authentic connection.
