“If I wanted a special doll, andI begged my mother for it, shewould give me a speech abouthow I had three dolls at homeand I didn't need another one,and remind me of how fortunate I was compared to all the poor little girls all overthe world who didn't have dolls. And when she finished telling me why I shouldn't want what I wanted, I still wanted it just as badlyonly I felt ashamed of myself for wanting it.”