Asks Quote by Mohsin Hamid
“Living in a place like Pakistan, very often you meet people who are migrating abroad. And sometimes you'll ask their parents, you know - you didn't try to stop them? Like, why didn't you say, don't go - I'll miss you? Stay with me. And, you know, people say, well, it's best for them. They have to go. And parents, you know, take on that sadness because they know it's better for their children if they leave.”
About This Quote
It reflects the emotional conflict parents feel when children emigrate, balancing personal loss with perceived better opportunities.
In simple terms: Parents feel sadness but accept children's departure for their future.
Key Takeaway
Support families through transition.
Themes
migration
family
sacrifice
Mood
reflective
empathetic
Type
personal
cultural
When to use this quote
- family gatherings
- immigration counseling
- community support
Key Concepts
emotional labor
cultural expectations
Questions to Reflect On
- What can families do to stay connected across borders?
- How does migration reshape family identity?
A Different Perspective
Parents may feel powerless to change outcomes.
