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Communication Quote by Michiko Kakutani

“Technology offers the illusion of companionship without the demands of intimacy, and communication without emotional risk, while actually making people feel lonelier and more overwhelmed. “A song that became popular on YouTube in 2010, ‘Do You Want to Date My Avatar?’ ends with the lyrics ‘And if…” quote by Michiko Kakutani
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““Technology offers the illusion of companionship without the demands of intimacy, and communication without emotional risk, while actually making people feel lonelier and more overwhelmed. “A song that became popular on YouTube in 2010, ‘Do You Want to Date My Avatar?’ ends with the lyrics ‘And if you think I’m not the one, log off, log off, and we’ll be done.’ ” from a review of Alone Together by S. Turkle””

Michiko Kakutani

About This Quote

Source Book: Alone Together by Sherry Turkle, 2011

Technology promises easy connection but often deepens loneliness and stress by replacing genuine intimacy with shallow interaction.

In simple terms: Tech feels friendly but can isolate us.

Key Takeaway

Seek real, face‑to‑face relationships.

Themes

loneliness technology intimacy communication

Mood

reflective concerned

Type

analytical observational

When to use this quote

  • online dating
  • remote work
  • social media use
  • virtual reality
  • friendship

Key Concepts

digital media social isolation psychological well‑being

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you balance online convenience with real emotional needs?
  • What habits can protect you from digital fatigue?
A Different Perspective

Even virtual connections can lack emotional depth, leading to superficial bonds.

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