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Compassion Quote by Michael Cunningham

“Barret thinks- he thinks, briefly- of turning around and leaving the park; of being, this time, the vanisher, the man who leaves you wondering, who offers no explanation, not even the sour satisfaction of a real fight; who simply drifts away, because (it seems) there's affection and there's sex…” quote by Michael Cunningham
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““Barret thinks- he thinks, briefly- of turning around and leaving the park; of being, this time, the vanisher, the man who leaves you wondering, who offers no explanation, not even the sour satisfaction of a real fight; who simply drifts away, because (it seems) there's affection and there's sex but there's no urgency, no little hooks clasping little eyes; no binding, no dogged devotions, no prayers for mercy, not when mercy can be so easily self-administered. What would it be like, Barrett wonders, to be the other, the man who's had the modest portion he thinks of as enough, who slips away before the mess sets in, before he's available to accusation and recrimination, before the authorities start demanding of him When, and Why, and With Whom””

Michael Cunningham

About This Quote

Source Novel: The Hours, 1998

Barrett contemplates escaping responsibility, seeking freedom from emotional entanglements, yet recognizes the emptiness of such avoidance.

In simple terms: He wonders about leaving without consequences.

Key Takeaway

Avoidance may lead to isolation.

Themes

freedom responsibility relationships

Mood

thoughtful introspective

Type

literary psychological

When to use this quote

  • career change
  • relationship decisions
  • personal growth
  • conflict resolution

Key Concepts

existential choice psychological escape

Questions to Reflect On

  • What responsibilities are you avoiding?
  • How does avoidance affect your relationships?
A Different Perspective

Escaping may cause unresolved issues.

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