Death Quote by Meghan O'Rourke
“Grief is characterized much more by waves of feeling that lessen and reoccur, it's less like stages and more like different states of feeling.”
About This Quote
Source Essay: Grief Is Not a Linear Process, 2015
Grief unfolds in unpredictable waves, not fixed stages, with feelings that ebb and flow over time.
In simple terms: Grief comes in waves, not steps.
Accept the ebb and flow.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- loss of a loved one
- breakup
- job loss
- health diagnosis
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you recognize a new wave of grief?
- What helps you ride the emotional tides?
The wave metaphor may oversimplify chronic, complex trauma.