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Death Quote by Meghan O'Rourke

“Grief is characterized much more by waves of feeling that lessen and reoccur, it's less like stages and more like different states of feeling.” quote by Meghan O'Rourke
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“Grief is characterized much more by waves of feeling that lessen and reoccur, it's less like stages and more like different states of feeling.”

Meghan O'Rourke

About This Quote

Source Essay: Grief Is Not a Linear Process, 2015

Grief unfolds in unpredictable waves, not fixed stages, with feelings that ebb and flow over time.

In simple terms: Grief comes in waves, not steps.

Key Takeaway

Accept the ebb and flow.

Themes

grief emotion healing

Mood

melancholic hopeful

Type

self-help psychological

When to use this quote

  • loss of a loved one
  • breakup
  • job loss
  • health diagnosis

Key Concepts

psychology nonlinear processes

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you recognize a new wave of grief?
  • What helps you ride the emotional tides?
A Different Perspective

The wave metaphor may oversimplify chronic, complex trauma.

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