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“The familiarities of the gaming-table contribute very much to the decay of politeness ... The pouts and quarrels that naturally arise from disputes must put an end to all complaisance, or even good will towards one another.” quote by Mary Wortley Montagu
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“The familiarities of the gaming-table contribute very much to the decay of politeness ... The pouts and quarrels that naturally arise from disputes must put an end to all complaisance, or even good will towards one another.”

Mary Wortley Montagu

About This Quote

Source Essay: Letters from a Lady of Quality, 1720, social commentary

Politeness declines when people argue; courteous behavior must be maintained despite disputes.

In simple terms: Politeness erodes in conflict.

Key Takeaway

Maintain courtesy even in disagreement.

Themes

civility conflict social etiquette communication

Mood

thoughtful concerned

Type

social ethical

When to use this quote

  • dinner parties
  • online forums
  • team meetings

Key Concepts

respect emotional intelligence social harmony

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you keep politeness in heated debates?
  • What role does respect play in conflict resolution?
A Different Perspective

Strong opinions may suppress honest dialogue.

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