Feelings Quote by Mary Balogh
“But the things is, you see, that two people can never actually become one no matter how close they are. And it would not be desirable even if it were possible. What would happen when one of them died? It would leave the other as a half a person, and that would be a dreadful thing. We must each be a whole person and therefore we each need some privacy to be alone with ourselves and our own feelings.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: A Woman of Substance, 1979
Intimacy cannot erase individuality; each person needs personal space to remain whole.
In simple terms: People must stay whole, not merge.
Respect personal boundaries.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- marriage
- close friendships
- roommates
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What boundaries protect your identity?
- How do you balance closeness and independence?
Complete merging can cause loss of self.