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Marriage Quote by Martha Southgate

“Why wouldn't you want to be as close as you could to another person's glow, when you felt it? I still think that, to tell the truth. It makes being married hard.” quote by Martha Southgate
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““Why wouldn't you want to be as close as you could to another person's glow, when you felt it? I still think that, to tell the truth. It makes being married hard.””

Martha Southgate

About This Quote

Source Novel: The House of the Spirits by Isabel Allende, 1982

Desire for closeness can clash with personal boundaries, making marriage challenging.

In simple terms: Close closeness can strain marriage.

Key Takeaway

Balance intimacy with personal space.

Themes

marriage boundaries desire

Mood

thoughtful conflicted

Type

philosophical advice

When to use this quote

  • family life
  • romantic partnership

Key Concepts

sociology emotional labor conflict

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you maintain self‑identity in a partnership?
  • What boundaries protect love?
A Different Perspective

Too much closeness can cause loss of individuality.

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