Chair Quote by Marshall Goldsmith
“All of us have people in our lives who drive us crazy. We've spent hours reliving the unfair, unappreciative, inconsiderate treatment they have inflicted on us. But getting mad at this person makes just about as much sense as getting mad at a chair for being a chair.”
About This Quote
Source Book: What Got You Here Won't Get You There by Marshall Goldsmith, 2007
People can irritate us, but misdirected anger is irrational.
In simple terms: Don't waste anger on people.
Key Takeaway
Redirect frustration product.
Themes
self‑control
emotional intelligence
relationships
Mood
reflective
calm
Type
motivational
psychological
When to use this quote
- workplace conflict
- personal relationships
- stress management
Key Concepts
Cognitive reframing
mindfulness
Questions to Reflect On
- What triggers your anger?
- How can you channel it productively?
A Different Perspective
Anger can persist despite rationalizing.
