Affair Quote by Margaret Widdemer
““For some reason she found that Allan Harrington's attitude of absolute detachment made the whole affair seem much easier for her. And when Mrs. Harrington slipped a solitaire diamond into her hand as she went, instead of disliking it she enjoyed its feel on her finger, and the flash of it in the light. She thanked Mrs. Harrington for it with real gratitude. But it made her feel more than ever engaged to marry her mother-in-law.””
About This Quote
Source Short story: “The Diamond Gift” by Margaret Widdemer, 1925
Detachment can make emotional events feel easier, yet tangible symbols can deepen personal commitment.
In simple terms: Detachment eases feelings; symbols deepen ties.
Key Takeaway
Recognize when symbols influence decisions.
Themes
detachment
emotional intimacy
symbolism
family dynamics
gratitude
Mood
reflective
conflicted
thoughtful
Type
philosophical
narrative
When to use this quote
- weddings
- family gatherings
- receiving gifts
- making vows
Key Concepts
psychology of attachment
symbolic interaction
social rituals
Questions to Reflect On
- Do symbols help or hinder authentic choices?
- How does detachment affect emotional processing?
A Different Perspective
Symbolic gifts may create pressure to conform.
