Dilemma Quote by Lynn Coady
“Occasionally, chewing over some random letter writer's dilemma, I'll find myself imagining scenarios where the problem could be sidestepped by an innocent fib or series of evasive manoeuvres. Then, I slap myself on the wrist.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Antagonist, 2015
People sometimes rationalize deceit as a harmless way to avoid conflict, but it often leads to self‑reproach.
In simple terms: Lying to dodge problems feels easier but causes guilt.
Key Takeaway
Weigh honesty against short‑term convenience.
Themes
ethics
self‑control
conflict resolution
Mood
thoughtful
introspective
Type
philosophical
inspirational
When to use this quote
- personal relationships
- workplace negotiations
- creative writing
Key Concepts
moral reasoning
self‑awareness
psychology
Questions to Reflect On
- When have you justified a lie?
- What are the long‑term costs of that lie?
A Different Perspective
Deception can damage trust and self‑esteem.
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