Hyeonseo Lee

“The strength of my parents’ feelings for each other, however, was a worry to my grandmother. She warned them that if a…

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“He’d valued his dignity more than his own life.”

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“It was the dilemma all three of us had. Every choice we made cut us off permanently from someone we loved.”

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“This was the first time I had ever known that North Korea has gay people. I am embarrassed to admit that I…

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“There was just one problem, however, and it was a major one. I wasn’t choosing any of this. It was all happening…

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“Most of the brokers who help defectors are human traffickers. They help women escape, not men. They’re paid to bring us to…

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“I had to learn Mandarin. And I had the best teacher – necessity. You can study a language for years at school,…

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“In her world, the law was upside down. People had to break the law to live. The prohibition on drug-dealing, a serious…

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“I’ll do whatever it takes. Humans are selfish and care only for themselves and their families. Am I any different?..... Not only…

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“Not only did I believe that humans were selfish and base, I also knew that plenty of them were actually bad –…

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“Sixty thousand yuan – a fortune representing ten years’ wages at the restaurant – and a week’s imprisonment with the threat of…

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“Every so often the authorities registered voters in order to find out who was missing and why. I had turned eighteen and…

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“At the end of that first year at secondary school the ceremonies held on the anniversary of the Korean War affected me…

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“Afterwards, wedding photographs were taken, as was customary, at the feet of the great bronze statue of Kim Il-sung on Mansu Hill.…

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“It’s funny how the final straw is invariably a trivial incident.”

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“History lessons were superficial. The past was not set in stone, and was occasionally rewritten.”

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“The irony was that the new communist state had created a social hierarchy more elaborate and stratified than anything seen in the…

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“One of the main reasons that distinctions between oppressor and victim are blurred in North Korea is that no one there has…

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“These birthdays were national holidays and all children were given treats and candies. From our youngest years we associated the Great Leader…

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“I ate noodles every day. After a week, I wanted a change and rang Kim to ask him the English word for…

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“Ordinary people are made persecutors, denouncers, thieves. They use the fear flowing from the top to win some advantage, or to survive.”

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“I wanted to belong, like everyone else around me did, but there was no country I could say was mine. I had…

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“There are two kinds of prison in the gulag. One is for prisoners sentenced to ‘revolutionary re-education through labour’. If they survive…

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“She’d said nothing about keeping this a secret, but I knew I would never mention it to my mother or my father…

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“She was a manager at Department Store Number One in Pyongyang, which was regularly featured on the television news, showing shelves laden…

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