About Quote by Lynda Barry
“It's one thing to have a relationship, to lay your hands on it, and another to make it continue and last. That's something I haven't talked about much in my comic strips, and it's certainly something I'm interested in.”
About This Quote
Source Comic Strip Collection "Ernie", 1999
She distinguishes between having a relationship and actively maintaining it, highlighting the often‑overlooked effort required for lasting connections.
In simple terms: Keeping a relationship alive needs work beyond just having it.
Invest effort to sustain relationships.
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When to use this quote
- marriage counseling
- friendship upkeep
- team collaboration
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What daily habits strengthen a partnership?
- How do you balance personal needs with relationship upkeep?
Sustaining relationships can be emotionally draining and time‑consuming.