Divorce Quote by Louann Brizendine
““During times of physical separation, when touching and caressing is impossible, a deep, longing, almost a hunger, for the beloved can set in. We are used to thinking of this longing as only psychological, but it's actually physical. The brain is virtually in a drug-withdrawal state. During a separation, motivation for reunion can reach a fever pitch in the brain. Activities such as caressing, kissing, gazing, hugging, and orgasm can replenish the chemical bond of love and trust in the brain. The oxytocin-dopamine rush once again suppresses anxiety and skepticism and reinforces the love circuits in the brain. From an experiment we also know that oxytocin is naturally released in the brain after a twenty-second hug from a partner- sealing the bond between huggers and triggering the brain's trust circuits.””
About This Quote
Source Book: The Female Brain by Louann Brizendine, 2006
Physical separation triggers a neurochemical craving for closeness, similar to withdrawal.
In simple terms: Separation creates a physical longing for touch.
Key Takeaway
Maintain connection during distance.
Themes
relationships
neuroscience
attachment
Mood
empathetic
scientific
Type
educational
informative
When to use this quote
- long-distance relationships
- therapy
- relationship counseling
Key Concepts
oxytocin
dopamine
brain chemistry
trust circuits
Questions to Reflect On
- How does touch affect mental health?
- What non‑physical ways can fulfill this need?
A Different Perspective
Physical cravings may be misinterpreted as purely emotional.
