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“After a childhood of hungering to be an adult, my hunger had passed. Unexpected fates had begun to catch my notice. These middle-aged women seemed very tired to me, as if hope had been wrung out of them and replaced with a deathly, walking sort of sleep.” quote by Lorrie Moore
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“After a childhood of hungering to be an adult, my hunger had passed. Unexpected fates had begun to catch my notice. These middle-aged women seemed very tired to me, as if hope had been wrung out of them and replaced with a deathly, walking sort of sleep.”

Lorrie Moore

About This Quote

Source Short Story: "Self-Help" by Lorrie Moore, 1985

The narrator reflects on aging, noting that youthful longing fades and middle‑aged women appear exhausted, as if hope has been drained and replaced by a numb, sleep‑like state.

In simple terms: Aging can feel like a loss of youthful hope, leaving a weary, numb existence.

Key Takeaway

Recognize and address the fatigue that can accompany midlife.

Themes

aging hope fatigue identity disillusionment

Mood

melancholic reflective

Type

literary observational

When to use this quote

  • career stagnation
  • midlife crisis
  • caregiver burnout
  • personal reflection

Key Concepts

existentialism psychology social observation

Questions to Reflect On

  • What signs of fatigue do you notice in yourself?
  • How can you restore hope in midlife?
A Different Perspective

Hope may be rekindled through new purpose or community support.

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