Advice Quote by Lord Chesterfield
“There is a sort of veteran woman of condition, who, having lived always in the grand monde, and having possibly had some gallantries, together with the experience of five and twenty or thirty years, form a young fellow better than all the rules that can be given him. Wherever you go, make some of those women your friends; which a very little matter will do. Ask their advice, tell them your doubts or difficulties as to your behavior; but take great care not to drop one word of their experience; for experience implies age, and the suspicion of age, no woman, let her be ever so old, ever forgives.”
About This Quote
Source Letter: Advice to a Young Man, 1748
Seasoned women offer valuable guidance; seek their counsel and respect their experience, regardless of age.
In simple terms: Listen to experienced women for advice.
Key Takeaway
Value and heed women's wisdom.
Themes
wisdom
gender
mentorship
respect
Mood
respectful
encouraging
Type
philosophical
inspirational
When to use this quote
- career decisions
- personal dilemmas
- relationship advice
Key Concepts
intergenerational learning
female agency
Questions to Reflect On
- How can we better honor women's experience?
- What barriers exist to seeking female mentorship?
A Different Perspective
Some may undervalue older women's insights.
