Authentic Quote by Lisa Wingate
““When I'm with him, I feel like a completely different person. I like the way this person feels. And then I wonder - is this the person I really am? How can you know for certain what parts of yourself are authentic and what parts you've invented to make life bearable?””
About This Quote
Source Interview: The Book of Lost Names, 2020 (author interview)
Personal identity can feel fluid in relationships, raising doubts about authenticity versus constructed selves.
In simple terms: Identity shifts with others.
Reflect on authentic self versus role.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- therapy
- journaling
- close friendships
- life transitions
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you differentiate true self from role?
- What parts of you feel most authentic?
Authenticity is hard to pin down; external influences shape self‑concept.