Character Quote by Lisa See
“In our country we call this type of mother love teng ai. My son has told me that in men's writing it is composed of two characters. The first means pain; the second means love. That is a mother's love.”
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Tea Girl of Hummingbird Lane, 2017
Mother’s love is described as a blend of pain and love, reflecting deep, complex affection.
In simple terms: Mother’s love mixes pain and love, showing deep affection.
Recognize love’s complexity in relationships.
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When to use this quote
- parenting
- cross‑cultural counseling
- literary analysis
- mental health support
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How does cultural context shape expressions of love?
- What role does pain play in deep affection?
Cultural nuances may be misinterpreted across societies.