Love Quote by Lisa See
““When I knew I couldn't suffer another moment of pain, and tears fell on my bloody bindings, my mother spoke softly into my ear, encouraging me to go one more hour, one more day, one more week, reminding me of the rewards I would have if I carried on a little longer. In this way, she taught me how to endure--not just the physical trials of footbinding and childbearing but the more tortuous pain of the heart, mind, and soul. She was also pointing out my defects and teaching me how to use them to my benefit. In our country, we call this type of mother love teng ai. My son has told me that in men's writing it is composed of two characters. The first means pain; the second means love. That is a mother's love.””
About This Quote
Source Book: Snow Flower and the Secret Fan by Lisa See, 2005
A mother's love endures suffering, teaching resilience and turning flaws into strengths.
In simple terms: Mother's love teaches perseverance through pain.
Key Takeaway
Embrace hardship as growth.
Themes
love
resilience
self‑improvement
Mood
emotional
hopeful
Type
narrative
inspirational
When to use this quote
- childbirth
- footbinding
- personal trauma
- healing
- self‑development
Key Concepts
cultural tradition
endurance
maternal influence
Questions to Reflect On
- What personal pain can you transform into strength?
- How does cultural love shape your resilience?
A Different Perspective
Endurance may lead to burnout if not balanced with self‑care.
![“In my mother's time, [pain] was a secret burden, and women were admired for their ability to ignore, to be silent, to be selfless… Now we can speak it, and that's true healing, not a problem--to admit there is some constant pain.” quote by Terese Marie Mailhot](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/img-quotes/3ef/terese-marie-mailhot-281987_pain_in-my-mother-s-time-pain-was-a-secret-bu_1314864.jpg)
