Asking Quote by Leo Buscaglia
“A wife says to her husband (or vice versa), "Do you love me?""Of course," he replies. "I've been married to you for twenty years, haven't I?"How satisfied would we be if we presented someone with a vintage wine and, upon asking his opinion of it, he replied, "I'm drinking it, aren't I?"Love still needs expression between those who share it.”
About This Quote
Source Essay: “Love and Communication,” 1995
Love requires ongoing affirmation; assuming it’s understood without expression leads to disconnect.
In simple terms: Love needs to be spoken.
Key Takeaway
Regularly express love to partners.
Themes
relationships
communication
emotional intimacy
Mood
warm
intimate
Type
philosophical
inspirational
When to use this quote
- daily compliments
- shared rituals
- relationship counseling
- mindful listening
Key Concepts
affirmation
vulnerability
reciprocity
Questions to Reflect On
- How often do you verbally affirm love?
- What barriers prevent open emotional expression?
A Different Perspective
People may feel uncomfortable with frequent verbal affirmations.
