Approval of others Quote by Lee Goff
““It seemed so natural, receiving it, watching others receive it, assuming that the approval of others determined our worth. Then one day we found we couldn't feel any worth without it. We'd forgotten that we were gifted in ways unimaginable, created with a unique purpose like no other, that people are hurting, that we beat that same hurt and we can help them. There is no one as valuable as you. Unlearn that old lie.””
About This Quote
Source Interview: Personal Development Podcast, 2020
People often tie self‑worth to external validation, forgetting intrinsic value and purpose, leading to dependence on others’ approval.
In simple terms: Self‑worth comes from within, not others’ opinions.
Cultivate internal validation.
Themes
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When to use this quote
- coaching sessions
- mental health therapy
- personal journaling
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What internal strengths can you recognize today?
- How does external praise affect your confidence?
External validation can still be useful for growth.