Death Quote by Kaiten Nukariya
““The law of balance strictly forbids one's monopoly of happiness. It applies its scorpion whip to anyone who is given to pleasures. Joy in extremity lives next door to exceeding sorrow. "Where there is much light," says Goethe, "shadow is deep." Age, withered and disconsolate, lurks under the skirts of blooming youth. The celebration of birthday is followed by the commemoration of death. Marriage might be supposed to be the luckiest event in one's life, but the widow's tears and the orphan's sufferings also might be its outcome. But for the former the latter can never be. The death of parents is indeed the unluckiest event in the son's life, but it may result in the latter's inheritance of an estate, which is by no means unlucky. The disease of a child may cause its parents grief, but it is a matter of course that it lessens the burden of their livelihood.””
About This Quote
The quote reflects on the inevitable dualities of life—joy and sorrow, light and shadow, happiness and loss—suggesting that extremes are always accompanied by their opposites and that balance is enforced by fate.
In simple terms: Life’s highs are always paired with lows.
Key Takeaway
Accept that happiness and pain coexist.
Themes
dualities
balance
fate
human experience
Mood
reflective
melancholic
Type
philosophical
observational
When to use this quote
- grief
- celebration
- marriage
- parenthood
- inheritance
Key Concepts
philosophy
existentialism
contrasts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you find balance amid opposing forces?
- Can you embrace both joy and sorrow?
A Different Perspective
It may oversimplify complex emotions into deterministic patterns.
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