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Communication Quote by Jonathan Franzen

“Eager, perhaps, to repay the favor of listening, Sylvia nodded with encouragement. But suddenly she reminded Enid of Katharine Hepburn. In Hepburn's eyes there had been a blank unconsciousness of privilege that made a once-poor woman like Enid want to kick her patrician shins with the hardest-toed…” quote by Jonathan Franzen
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““Eager, perhaps, to repay the favor of listening, Sylvia nodded with encouragement. But suddenly she reminded Enid of Katharine Hepburn. In Hepburn's eyes there had been a blank unconsciousness of privilege that made a once-poor woman like Enid want to kick her patrician shins with the hardest-toed pumps at her disposal. It would be a mistake, she felt, to confess anything to this woman.””

Jonathan Franzen

About This Quote

Source Novel: Freedom by Jonathan Franzen, 2010

A character feels conflicted admiration and resentment toward a privileged friend, fearing honest confession might damage the relationship.

In simple terms: Mixed feelings about a privileged friend and fear of honesty.

Key Takeaway

Balance admiration with honest communication.

Themes

classship class honesty power dynamics

Mood

reflective tense

Type

literary character study

When to use this quote

  • social gatherings
  • workplace interactions
  • family gatherings

Key Concepts

privilege social tension self-censorship

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does privilege affect your relationships?
  • When is honesty more harmful than helpful?
A Different Perspective

The tension may be resolved by open dialogue, but risk of conflict remains.

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