Intolerance Quote by John Irving
““Ah, well..." I started to say, and then stopped. So that was where he was going; I'd heard it before. Richard had told me that I'd not been standing in my mother's shoes in 1942, when I was born; he'd said I couldn't, or shouldn't, judge her. It was my not forgiving her that irked him-it was my intolerance of her intolerance that bugged him.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The World According to Garp, John Irving, 1978
The narrator reflects on a moral dilemma about judging his mother, highlighting intolerance and forgiveness.
In simple terms: He struggles with judging his mother, feeling conflicted about forgiveness.
Key Takeaway
Consider the limits of judging others.
Themes
family
morality
forgiveness
intolerance
generational conflict
Mood
thoughtful
reflective
serious
Type
literary
philosophical
When to use this quote
- family gatherings
- personal reflections
- intergenerational discussions
Key Concepts
ethical dilemma
psychological conflict
historical context
Questions to Reflect On
- Why is it hard to forgive a parent?
- How does intolerance perpetuate conflict?
A Different Perspective
Judgment can be hindered by personal bias and lack of empathy.
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