Friend Quote by John Green
““But with friendship, there's nothing like that. Being in a relationship, that's something you choose. Being friends, that's just something you are.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Fault in Our Stars, 2012
Friendship is innate, while romantic relationships are choices, highlighting different bonds
In simple terms: Friends are natural; partners are chosen
Key Takeaway
Value chosen relationships and cherish natural friendships
Themes
friendship
choice
relationships
identity
Mood
thoughtful
warm
Type
conversational
inspirational
When to use this quote
- school life
- family gatherings
- online communities
- support groups
Key Concepts
Social bonds
personal agency
Questions to Reflect On
- Do you differentiate between chosen and natural bonds?
- How does choice affect relationship stability?
A Different Perspective
Romantic idealism may overlook friendship depth
![“Being in a relationship, that's something you choose. Being friends, that's just something you are. [But] I do pick you. We've been friends too long to pick, but if we could pick, I'd pick you.” quote by John Green](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/img-quotes/15c/john-green-12_friendship_being-in-a-relationship-that-s-something_1220055.jpg)
