Dysfunction Quote by John Bradshaw
““The more dysfunctional the system, the more closed and rigid are the roles it assigns. In families that are chemically, sexually or violently dysfunctional, the needs of the system are overt. The system dispenses its roles for the members to play in order to keep balance. All the rigid roles set up by family dysfunction are forms of abandonment.””
About This Quote
Source Book: Healing the Shame that Binds You, John Bradshaw, 1988
Dysfunctional families create rigid, limiting roles to maintain a fragile balance, causing members to feel abandoned.
In simple terms: Rigid roles hide family problems and cause abandonment.
Key Takeaway
Recognize and break rigid roles.
Themes
family dynamics
psychology
abandonment
roles
balance
Mood
reflective
somber
Type
advice
psychological
When to use this quote
- therapy sessions
- family gatherings
- personal reflection
- support groups
Key Concepts
systems theory
attachment
codependency
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you see rigid roles affecting you?
- What can you do to create healthier patterns?
A Different Perspective
Roles may protect short‑term stability but hinder long‑term growth.
