Communication Quote by Jennifer Michael Hecht
““Prayer is based on the remote possibility that someone is actually listening; but so is a lot of conversation. If the former seems far-fetched, consider the latter: even if someone is listening to your story, and really hearing, that person will disappear from existence in the blink of a cosmic eye, so why bother to tell this perhaps illusory and possibly un-listening person something he or she is unlikely to truly understand, just before the two of you blip back out of existence? We like to talk to people who answer us, intelligently if possible, but we do talk without needing response or expecting comprehension. Sometimes, the event is the word, the act of speaking. Once we pull that apart a bit, the action of talking becomes more important than the question of whether the talking is working-because we know, going in, that the talking is not working. That said, one might as well pray.””
About This Quote
Source Essay: The Power of Prayer, Jennifer Michael Hecht, 2015
Prayer and conversation both rely on the hope that someone hears us, yet both often occur without response, making the act of speaking itself valuable.
In simple terms: Talking can be meaningful even if unheard.
Value the act of expression itself.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- personal reflection
- therapy sessions
- creative writing
- meditation practice
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- Do you find speaking helps you process thoughts even without a listener?
- How does the act of praying differ from everyday talk?
The quote assumes a universal need for external validation, which may not apply to everyone.