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Communication Quote by Jennifer Gilmore

“I had the worst feeling, when I hung up, that I had missed the purpose of our conversation, that we both had. We had been apart for so long and no longer knew how to speak, other than as strangers. How are you feeling? we said, but what we meant was, Where are you? who are you now? Are you still…” quote by Jennifer Gilmore
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““I had the worst feeling, when I hung up, that I had missed the purpose of our conversation, that we both had. We had been apart for so long and no longer knew how to speak, other than as strangers. How are you feeling? we said, but what we meant was, Where are you? who are you now? Are you still in there?””

Jennifer Gilmore

About This Quote

Source Novel: The Twelve Lives of Samuel Hawley by Jennifer Gilmore, 2022

The speaker feels a deep disconnect after a long separation, fearing they no longer truly know each other.

In simple terms: Lost connection after time apart.

Key Takeaway

Seek honest conversation to rediscover each other.

Themes

communication identity loneliness

Mood

reflective melancholic

Type

dialogue emotional

When to use this quote

  • reunion
  • long-distance relationships
  • personal introspection

Key Concepts

existential questioning relationship dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

  • What does “still in there” mean to you?
  • How can you bridge the gap of unfamiliarity?
A Different Perspective

Assumes the other party feels the same without verification.

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