Communication Quote by Jennifer Gilmore
““I had the worst feeling, when I hung up, that I had missed the purpose of our conversation, that we both had. We had been apart for so long and no longer knew how to speak, other than as strangers. How are you feeling? we said, but what we meant was, Where are you? who are you now? Are you still in there?””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Twelve Lives of Samuel Hawley by Jennifer Gilmore, 2022
The speaker feels a deep disconnect after a long separation, fearing they no longer truly know each other.
In simple terms: Lost connection after time apart.
Seek honest conversation to rediscover each other.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- reunion
- long-distance relationships
- personal introspection
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What does “still in there” mean to you?
- How can you bridge the gap of unfamiliarity?
Assumes the other party feels the same without verification.