Marriage Quote by Jeffrey Eugenides
““Tessio Zizmo had been a virgin when she married Milton Stephanides at the age of 22. Their engagement,which coincided with the Second World War, had been a chaste affair. My mother was proud of the way she'd managed to simultaneously kindle and snuff my father's flame,keeping him at a low burn for the duration of a global cataclysm… She didn't surrender until after Japan had.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Marriage Plot by Jeffrey Eugenides, 2011
A woman’s wartime marriage is portrayed as both a protective and restrictive arrangement, reflecting broader societal constraints.
In simple terms: Her marriage was both safe and limiting during war.
Key Takeaway
Recognize how context shapes personal choices.
Themes
war
marriage
gender
societal pressure
Mood
reflective
critical
Type
literary
historical
When to use this quote
- wartime relationships
- family expectations
- personal autonomy
- historical fiction
Key Concepts
agency
historical context
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Questions to Reflect On
- How does war influence personal agency?
- What are the hidden costs of “protective” relationships?
A Different Perspective
The narrative may romanticize complex power dynamics.
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