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Able Quote by Jane Welsh Carlyle

“It is odd what notions men seem to have of the scantiness of a woman's resources. They do not find it anything out of nature that they should be able to exist by themselves; but a woman must always be borne about on somebody's shoulders, and dandled or chirped to, or it is supposed she will fall…” quote by Jane Welsh Carlyle
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“It is odd what notions men seem to have of the scantiness of a woman's resources. They do not find it anything out of nature that they should be able to exist by themselves; but a woman must always be borne about on somebody's shoulders, and dandled or chirped to, or it is supposed she will fall into the blackest melancholy!”

Jane Welsh Carlyle

About This Quote

Source Letter: Personal correspondence, 1855

Women are socially dependent, expected to rely on men, leading to emotional instability if unsupported.

In simple terms: Women expected to rely on men; leads to melancholy.

Key Takeaway

Advocate for women's independence.

Themes

gender dependence social expectations

Mood

critical historical

Type

letter social critique

When to use this quote

  • marriage
  • career
  • social support

Key Concepts

feminist theory social critique

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can societies support women's autonomy?
  • What structures perpetuate dependence?
A Different Perspective

Historical view may overlook women's agency.

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