Marriage is supposed to be this huge great overwhelming…
““Marriage is supposed to be this huge great overwhelming passion, and that we're supposed to be looking for our soulmate, our other half, but it's actually pretty damn mundane. After all the excitement goes, what you really want to be left with is someone who is a really good person and who adores you, and who you can grow old with. I know the bastards are exciting, but they don't make a good husband material.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Confident Woman, 2012
Marriage is less about dramatic romance and more about partnership with a kind, loving person.
In simple terms: Marriage is ordinary, not always passionate.
Key Takeaway
Value character over excitement.
Themes
relationships
marriage
realism
Mood
thoughtful
realistic
Type
advice
reflective
When to use this quote
- dating advice
- marriage counseling
- life planning
Key Concepts
partner compatibility
long‑term commitment
expectations
Questions to Reflect On
- What qualities matter most in a partner?
- How do you sustain love over time?
A Different Perspective
Romantic idealism can cause disappointment.