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Affection Quote by Jane Austen

“Lady Sondes' match surprises, but does not offend me; had her first marriage been of affection, or had their been a grown-updaughter, I should not have forgiven her; but I consider everybody as having a right to marry once in their lives for love, if they can.” quote by Jane Austen
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“Lady Sondes' match surprises, but does not offend me; had her first marriage been of affection, or had their been a grown-updaughter, I should not have forgiven her; but I consider everybody as having a right to marry once in their lives for love, if they can.”

Jane Austen

About This Quote

Source Novel: Sense and Sensibility, 1811

The speaker argues for the right to love and marry once, valuing affection over social conventions.

In simple terms: Love should be free and singular.

Key Takeaway

Support love based on affection.

Themes

love marriage individual rights

Mood

empathetic hopeful

Type

philosophical advice

When to use this quote

  • relationship counseling
  • legal reforms
  • personal decisions

Key Concepts

social norms romantic idealism

Questions to Reflect On

  • What barriers prevent love from being recognized?
  • How can society honor individual marital choices?
A Different Perspective

Societal expectations often conflict with personal love.

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