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“We unfortunately are conditioned at a very young age, "You have to do this to be loved." That's why I put in the children. You have to open them up early, encourage them, and listen to them.” quote by James Van Praagh
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“We unfortunately are conditioned at a very young age, "You have to do this to be loved." That's why I put in the children. You have to open them up early, encourage them, and listen to them.”

James Van Praagh

About This Quote

Source Interview: TV show "Spirit Whisperer", 2015

Early conditioning teaches children they must earn love through compliance, leading to emotional suppression.

In simple terms: Children learn love is earned, not given.

Key Takeaway

Encourage open, unconditional listening to kids.

Themes

parenting emotional health child development

Mood

empathetic concerned

Type

advice reflective

When to use this quote

  • family gatherings
  • school counseling
  • parent‑teacher meetings

Key Concepts

attachment theory psychology boundaries

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can adults model unconditional love?
  • What barriers stop kids from expressing feelings?
A Different Perspective

Children may resist openness if they fear judgment.

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