Abnormal Quote by James Agate
“Your Englishman, confronted by something abnormal will always pretend that it isn't there. If, however, you force him to look into it, he'll at once pretend that he sees the object not for what it is but for something that he would like it to be.”
About This Quote
A person may deny obvious problems, then reinterpret them to fit personal expectations when forced to confront them.
In simple terms: People deny and then reshape reality to suit their views.
Recognize denial and seek objective truth.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- personal conflict
- workplace meetings
- family discussions
- political debates
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you react when faced with uncomfortable facts?
- What narratives do you construct to avoid pain?
May overlook underlying issues while creating new misconceptions.