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“We really don't know how to love each other because we haven't really learned to love ourselves. In many instances, not all, it's not malicious. We've just been conditioned to such bad behavior.” quote by Iyanla Vanzant
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“We really don't know how to love each other because we haven't really learned to love ourselves. In many instances, not all, it's not malicious. We've just been conditioned to such bad behavior.”

Iyanla Vanzant

About This Quote

Self‑love is prerequisite for loving others; without it, harmful patterns repeat.

In simple terms: Love yourself before loving others.

Key Takeaway

Practice self‑compassion to improve relationships.

Themes

self‑love relationships conditioning

Mood

reflective hopeful

Type

advice philosophical

When to use this quote

  • therapy
  • relationship coaching
  • personal growth workshops

Key Concepts

psychology spirituality

Questions to Reflect On

  • What does self‑love look like for you?
  • How can you break conditioned negative behaviors?
A Different Perspective

Changing deep‑seated habits can be extremely challenging.

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