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Birth Quote by Iyanla Vanzant

“At birth, we are like cartilage - soft, flexible tissue. By the same natural process by which cartilage becomes hard bone, the soft, tender heart of an innocent child can become hardened by the circumstances into which she is born.” quote by Iyanla Vanzant
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“At birth, we are like cartilage - soft, flexible tissue. By the same natural process by which cartilage becomes hard bone, the soft, tender heart of an innocent child can become hardened by the circumstances into which she is born.”

Iyanla Vanzant

About This Quote

Source Book: Spiritual Principles for Healing by Iyanla Vanzant, 1999

Childhood innocence is soft and adaptable, but harsh environments can harden the heart like cartilage turning to bone.

In simple terms: Soft hearts can become hard from harsh surroundings.

Key Takeaway

Protect and nurture vulnerable hearts.

Themes

growth resilience environment vulnerability

Mood

empathetic reflective

Type

inspirational philosophical

When to use this quote

  • parenting
  • education
  • social services
  • community support

Key Concepts

psychology development hardening adaptation

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can we create nurturing environments for children?
  • What signs indicate a heart is hardening?
A Different Perspective

Hardening can be prevented with love and positive experiences.

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