Human relations Quote by Isabel Briggs Myers
““Those mitigating circumstances could just as well be mentioned if the thinker thought it worth the trouble. From the standpoint of human relations it is worth vastly more than the trouble it takes. The little sympathy or appreciation, coming first, puts the thinkers in the same camp with the feeling types, and the feeling types’ desire to stay in the same camp will keep them agreeing with the thinkers as far as possible.””
About This Quote
Source Book: Please Explain Yourself, 1970
Acknowledging mitigating circumstances shows empathy and aligns thinkers with emotional people, fostering agreement.
In simple terms: Recognizing context builds empathy and consensus.
Key Takeaway
Consider context to bridge logical and emotional gaps.
Themes
empathy
communication
agreement
Mood
thoughtful
analytical
Type
philosophical
practical
When to use this quote
- team meetings
- conflict resolution
- teaching
- negotiation
Key Concepts
social psychology
human relations
Questions to Reflect On
- How does empathy affect logical discussions?
- When should you prioritize feelings over facts?
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